I love Maria for so many reasons, mainly because she is simply over it, and her narration–sardonic, cynical, unpredictably poignant–is at its best when digging into what it’s like to actually be trans, from her point of view: This is literally the first three pages of the book. Nevada’s opening pages sum up everything that makes it so special: it’s a sex scene that finds our disaffected narrator, Maria, being choked by her girlfriend, Steph, as she disassociates and neurotically contemplates the perils of domestic life, her frustration with her genitals, and the right way to fake an orgasm. I encountered the novel in 2018 on the recommendation of Torrey Peters and was captivated from the first page, which is excerpted here along with the novel’s first three chapters. Since then, despite going out of print, worn copies of its iconic orange cover have been passed, and lost, between thousands of friends, lovers, and frenemies. Originally published in 2013 by the brilliant, and now-shuttered, Topside Press, Nevada shattered whatever expectation of what trans literature “ought” to do. For a disproportionate amount of my trans friends, it’s Imogen Binnie’s Nevada. For me, it was James Baldwin’s explanation of the significance of eye contact between queer men in Giovanni’s Room and Jonathan Groff attempting to prepare for gay sex in an episode of Looking (I know, leave me alone). It can be both deeply unnerving and extremely affirming, a recognition of being included in a community bound by shared experience beyond rainbow flags. If you enjoy such kind of kink, you may want to visit PORN.Most queer people remember the moment, or moments, they first experienced a piece of art that accurately, and honestly, reflected their own life back at them. Men are known to be horny a lot of times, either straight or gay so being attracted to each other eventually is never an issue. Their stamina and libido almost match and so it will not be hard for one of them to keep up with the energy and enthusiasm of the other. So, straight men would definitely enjoy being with a gay man because they can have as much anal sex as he wants. But men enjoy anal a hell lot because it is tighter and the butt is generally hot and arousing. It is a hit or miss for a lot of women because it hurts and it is dry. Straight men find this incredibly hot because women in both porn and in real life-are quite iffy about anal sex.
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