Though the bar in question is called the Cocksucker, the most that really happens there is relatively tame dancing.
The Secret Six ongoing series opened with a scene in a gay bar called The Bear Trap, which was apparently owned by the Arc Villain.Counter example, the Batman special Batman and the Ultimate Evil features a nice, friendly gay bar called the Lavender Dragon, to contrast the wholesomeness of consenting adult homosexuals with the sleazy business of paedophilia (the Ultimate Evil of the title).Delirium wandered into one of these at the beginning of the "Brief Lives" arc of The Sandman.
People were in fetish gear or cross dressing, though it was only for men, since on seeing the main character's step-sister kissing another girl, one of the patrons asked aloud "Who let the vagina crowd in?" American Virgin had one of these while the cast were visiting Australia.The bar where Fanny takes his night off and is captured by Brodie in The Invisibles and the S&M place that King Mob takes the Marquis de Sade to (the Divine Marquis is delighted to see what he has helped unleash on the world).The place where Constantine "died" in Hellblazer (technically a bisexual S&M place, not a strictly gay one).Any gay or fetish bar in Vertigo Comics:.